We have a few new people in our house lately. They are kind and loving and always play nice. The only downfall is that I can’t see them.
Apple calls them Niglese (say: Nig Leaze), Mergess and Nicolas. Niglese and Mergess are three, just like Apple. And they love to have tea parties an talk on the phone. Sometimes they help Apple get dressed and sometimes they sit and watch a movies together.
Niglese has golden hair just like Apple and Mergess has dark hair, like Daddy (well when Daddy had hair). Their favorite foods are noodle soup and cream of mushroom soup, just like Apple.
Nicolas has blonde hair like J and is seven just like him. J doesn’t agree that he can see or interact with Nicolas but he makes jokes about him being close by just to keep his Sister happy.
Hubby and I have started asking questions about Niglese, Nicolas and Mergess, who doesn’t come over as often as Niglese and Nicolas. We are trying to figure out how she decided to have an imaginary friend. We find it interesting since neither of us had imaginary friends and neither did A or J. This is completely new to us. But Apple talks about them as if she has known them forever.
We think she mixes in some of her friends she plays with and her cousins to come up with the perfect playmates. And when we can’t have a playtime with a real person, out comes her friends.
I know other children have imaginary friends, and I think it is completely normal, but somehow I just don’t know what to do with it. Do I play along or do I encourage her in a different direction? Please feel free to share your imaginary friend experiences with me so I know that I am not alone and what to expect when something doesn’t go right with them.




