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It’s All About the Hair

Two years ago, after a haircut that could have seen me donate 10 inches of hair to Locks of Love  in honour of my girlfriends that were diagnosed with Breast Cancer, I decided that I would continue to grow out my hair with minimal trims until I had enough to donate.

This summer as my hair was long and flowy I knew that I had reached the desired length.  I really enjoyed my long hair this year, but I was starting to feel like I needed a bit of style back.  With Fall approaching, I knew it was time to just do it. Even though I intended to cut my hair off it is still a hard thing to do when you have been living with it for two years.

I tried to get an appointment for my hair at two of my usual salons but they were both booked up. Recently on Twitter, I was hearing a lot about a salon down on Dalhousie called Texture.  Since I knew one of the ladies that had her hair done and loved it, I figured it was a pretty safe place to go for my cut.

Texture Hair Salon

In addition one on my photographer colleagues, Vanessa Dewson, offered to come down and capture my hair cut for me.  So not only did I cut my hair, but I have fabulous photos of the whole process.  Since I am the one behind the lens most of the time, it was a bit nerve wracking for me to be in front.  I know why I am behind the camera most of the time, but I sucked it up for this special day.
Hair cut

Meet Chelsea, Chelsea was my stylist. We had some great conversation where we shared stories of tattoos and no tattoos, thresholds of pain and awesome movies that actually mean something.  Chelsea was fabulous and funky and I really enjoyed sharing this time with her.

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And then there was the cutting.  Chelsea asked me my story, why I was donating my hair.  Then she combed and measured my hair.  I talked about the style I was hoping to get back and how I wouldn’t be doing this again soon, but it was a fun thing to do.  We divided my hair into two braids to get as much as we could into the donation and she was off with her scissors.  I didn’t shed a tear, which was amazing.  Others in the salon wanted to watch the cut and what was going on which was really touching.

Cutting the hair

My braids measure 12 inches, which means I was able to donate a good two inches more than I had originally anticipated.  I know that my small donation will only be able to make a third, if even, of a wig.  But, if I can share my hair with someone so that they can feel great at a time when they might feel at their worst, then my job is done.  I know that both of my girlfriends looked fabulous in their wigs and it gave them some freedom to feel normal at a time when they felt anything but.  It is for them that I did this, it is both of them that inspired me and continue to inspire me.

With this under my belt, it is time once again to get back to training.  I will be once again running the CIBC run for the Cure on October 3rd.  But, this year I will be running with a team, and in this team are my two girlfriends who inspired me to run in the first place.  If you would like to sponsor me and my run please do.  My hope is that one day we won’t need to run, we won’t need to donate hair, we won’t need to do all these things because there will be a Cure.

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A huge thank you to Vanessa for taking such fabulous photos.  She did an awesome job and I am so thankful that she captured this day for me.

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Categories: About Me, Pay it Forward, Photography, Run for the Cure

My official Blogaversary is Friday, June 25th which makes it five years that I have been writing this blog.  Five years that I have been sharing with you at my little place in the blogisphere.  I know that some weeks I have a lot to share and some, not so much.  But, I also know that it has been great to get to ‘meet’ you all and share in your stories and lives as well.

I love that I have met so many wonderful people in real life through my blog.  If I had never dared myself to do this I would never have met A Crafty Mom, Andrea, Borderline Bonkers, Kami’s Khlopchyk, Secret Agent Josephine or Bethany Actually.  All of whom are just as wonderful in real life as they are on their blogs.

When I first started sharing, I did it as a lark.  I felt like I couldn’t just lurk and read others blogs without contributing a little something back.  Then, I kind of got hooked.  It became like an addiction.  I will be doing something and writing posts in my head.  Not all of them make it to the blog due to time constraints but, I see the posts or hear them while I am out and about.  And that was when I knew I was in it for good.  I can honestly say in five years that I have never thought of stopping and this blog has seen me through some pretty tough times and I am grateful for those of you who commented and helped me through them.  There are also times when things in life don’t go so well and sometimes that it when things go a little quiet here, because believe it or not there are things in my life that I don’t share with the whole world.

As a little thank you I will be giving away a few of my favorite things this week.  The Fifth Anniversary is the Wood anniversary (modern) or the silverware (traditional) since I am sponsoring my giveaways, I will stick with the more modern approach and go with wood.

So the first giveaway will be from Swanky Paper. I love Heather’s personalized notecards.  They are so fun and funky, I wish I had a set of each. The winner of this giveaway will get to choose either a flat notecard set or a folded notecard set from the personlized notecards. All you have to do is leave a comment and tell me what is your favorite way to celebrate an Anniversary (and it could be any Anniversary, not necessarily a wedding one).  Contest closes at 6pm Wednesday, June 23rd a winner will be randomly chosen from all the entries.

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Categories: Blog Stuff, Giveaway, Pay it Forward

 Tonight at 5pm, out of the blue our doorbell rang.  When the doorbell rights at that time of night it usually means a door to door salesman of some sort.  I won the draw to answer the door.  And was I ever thankful that I did!  A girlfriend of mine was standing there, with a plate of Chocolate No-Bake Cookies.  She remembered that I told her I loved them when I was a kid.  So, when she made some today she packaged some up for me and dropped them off.

What a wonderfully thoughtful thing to do for me.  It brightened  my day for sure.  They are like little drops of heaven and bring me back to my childhood when we would make them all the time.

I am not sure if this is her recipe or not, but this is the one I grew up making, straight from my Mom’s recipe card. And if you decide to make some, perhaps you should drop a plate off for an unsuspecting friend or colleague just because.

Chocolate No-Bake Cookies

  • 2 c. white sugar
  • 1/2 c. margerine
  • 1/2 c. milk
  • 6 tbsp cocoa

Bring above to boil & add

  • 3c. oatmeal
  • 1 c. coconut
  • 1 tsp vanilla

Drop by teaspoon on wax paper.  Refrigerate and Enjoy!

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Categories: Kindness, Memory Lane, Pay it Forward, Randomness