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Rejuvination

After my last post, I certainly did not mean to wait a whole week before posting again.  Apple got a terrible cold, which she in turn gave to me, so my week seemed to slip away from me.  I was also busy preparing for a Girls weekend. A group of my friends get together for a weekend each Fall.  I have attended some of the dinners, but have never made it to two whole nights.  I didn’t get to sleepover yet again, but possibly next year if all goes well.  Even though I had to curtail my drinking, it certainly did not stop me from enjoying myself and feeling rejuvinated.

Friday we all stayed in, hung out, chatted without kids, and did a fun gift exchange.  The photo above is from Friday night.  I did get to wear heels, but I also wore my jeans. I don’t have a photo of myself from Saturday night, which is a pity because I was wearing a really nice black dress.  One that I haven’t worn in just over two years!!!  And my heels and stockings, and no kids were kicking me during dinner and I didn’t have to pull out toys and crayons and, and, and.

We went to a wonderful restaurant on the market called Stella Osteria.  This was my first visit to Stella, but hopefully not my last.  I certainly felt like it was something we used to do a lot before kids, but don’t get a chance to anymore.  Hubby and I just couldn’t afford to eat like that all the time.  Our turn will come again in due time that’s for sure.  I had a delicious salad (pictured below) with mozarella, goat cheese and tomatoes.  It was so good, just looking at this photo makes my mouth water all over again.

 For the main course I ordered this pasta de Mer.  Oh the seafood was divine.  There was roasted garlic, shrimp, clams, scallops, lobster tail, and a crab claw.  The photo doesn’t look like a huge portion but if you saw the size of the plate you would change your mind.  It was just so yummy.  I forgot to take a photo of dessert, but it was chocolate and so yummy.  Only one other of my friends had dessert and although I didn’t ‘need’ it, I did not want her to eat alone.  Such a good friend am I.

 It truly was so great to get out with friends and not have the kids for just a wee bit of time.  Hubby was great in that he took care of them and thus also got Apple’s cold.  My cold is still here and still rotten, I have not had a voice since Friday, but hope that tomorrow might see or hear me a little better.  And on Friday Hubby and I get to go out together for a fancy dinner and a night out. Yay for us!  Sorry to be away so long, but I have lots to share this week, so hopefully I will get the time to post.

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Mom

That’s me. Mom, Mommy, Mummy, Mama.  Whichever name they chose to use, it all comes out the same.  It is me.  It is the best job I have ever had.  It is the hardest job I have ever had.  And it is the lowest paying job I have ever had.

Some days are really hard, some days are really easy.  I can have a day where I get all of the housework done, a bunch of my own stuff and playing with the kids with no screaming or no back talking.  Then there are the days that I feel like nothing is accomplished and I spend most of the day trying to negotiate pleasantries from the kids.

Right now, I feel the need to keep busy with other projects.  Somehow having projects on the go, whether it is baking, knitting, sewing or photography, seems to help me feel like I am not lost in the midst of being a Mom.  Because if I can be honest, just being a Mom and keeping the house is not totally me, I need more.  I need to create, to feel like there is more to me than just all that.

I understand how some of my friends have felt the need to go back to work.  And although I know I could do it, the work part that is, I know I couldn’t do it, the leaving the kids part.  So for now, I stay home and do the best job I can at being a Mom.  But to help me stay a little sane, I keep busy.  Just so I don’t feel like I get totally lost in the Mom part of being a Mom, I need to keep a little of the Beach, in BeachMama.

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Happy Birthday!

Shhh… there was a birthday in our house today.

And it wasn’t for the blog.

I may be a year older, but Birthday Celebrations never get old for me.

I had a wonderful day and promise to post all about it tomorrow, it is late and I need to go to bed.

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